It only takes one second to say good-bye
In ancient Greece, a young man meets a beautiful girl, is exactly that the gifted scholar matches the beautiful woman. When when their love is vigorous, make people admire very much, but the wife has proposed saying good-bye, the reason is that this boy is too poor, often even fill out full one’s own belly and all have a difficulty. When the wife is afraid this boy perhaps will extremely hang on to pester endlessly, he says straight forwardly: ” say good-bye, take one second only “ . Then they have said good-bye. This guy attacks in philosophy research wholeheartedly, and has become the big illustrious philosopher of the reputation at that time quickly. This is a little interlude of young love of ancient big famous philosopher, Socrates of Greece.
The love does not bring the happiness to people as a kind of emotional activity. Through the ages, Cubitt the sharp arrow of love of Cupid does not know how many kindhearted hearts are stabed, how many sad and tragic final results are left. So, the love calls the rational doctrine, it is good that there are sentences to always speak in China: Can pick up, can put down too; One that is with Socrates “ Say good-bye in one second “ ,Exactly play the same tune on different musical instruments., say the marrow of the rational doctrine of the love.
In the world where the sexual desire flows over of today, we need to go to think deeply and scrutinize everything with the rational doctrine even more, under all reasonable doctrines is right, it is unripe and inmature that there is no reason. Though love is from the deep of the heart, and the most beautiful things in the world, is the result of distillation of human soul. But if love does not have rational care, will often be wrecked and died young by the wind and frost.
Luo Man? Luo Lan is here <<John? Chris pieces of husband >>China objects to the blind love view: Only know love like the thing that refined Ge receives beautifully, love, the person of love is only the personages in the fairy tale, can’t not only get love in the real world, even day will pass not to go down, because except that love knows nothing about her, penniless, have not loved. Where the so narrow world looks like a piece of world, where will the so one-sided outlook on life get the happiness. It is very dull that the life has no love, it is more dangerous but regard love as all lives.
Someone divides love into love of the passion and the companion’s love. The love of the passion is the strong mood state that a kind of whole attention is nearly all occupied by another person. This kind of love which is full of color of high emotion, has met us and hoped to fall into the feeling in love. That kind loves what the love of the passion is actually often seen in the soap opera by us, the love story makes people fascinated, but helpless to reaping the love of reality while stimulating to love illusion. And the development of the companion’s love, mainly set up respecting, mutual understanding and to on the confidence on each other’s love, not accompanied by great mood rise and fall, what it brought to people is a kind of warm, intimate and knowing acceptance. The love needs passion and romantic, but only the passionate and romantic love like the hot flame, reduce to flying ashes and smouldering smoke and leave remembering emptily after burning off. And can really maintain the love in all one’s life, it is in fact the companion’s love. It’s a pity illusion love with people to put into the love unwilling to think of these, seem can destroy in the future and instantly these wonderful.
” Fu thunder family letter ” can with Zeng Guofan family precepts that family letter match in excellence or beauty, characters its reveal this world language tirelessly that come out, the long father and son feeling still makes people visibly moved, this should be its greatest glamour. Among them the admonition about the love, still have realistic meanings in us. Fu Lei’s love view is a love view of a kind of rational doctrine. He teaches the son purely and purely: I have always never had the highest view of a love in all one’s life. The truth is the highest, the morals are the highest, justice is regarded as and set up the principle of the body the highestly. Love no matter in how fanatic climax stage can infringe these principle either. Friend, wife, lover, meet great moment, the question related to waiting a moment in truth, morals, justice, will never give in.
This can’t help letting people recall that poem of Pei DuoFei: Life sincere and valuable, love price high, if freedom so the two all can throw. . Changed the freedom in the poem into truth, morals, justice, it was Fu Ray that speak. We ordinary person perhaps, have so much nobleness, but Fu in thunder’s eyes and ” calm ” Rational for doctrine love view,not only tower it at noble high in the clouds, but also stick to by dog days at realistic earth.
It is essential to carry forward the rational doctrine in the times of the unrational doctrine. As to the love, we must choose rationally, perhaps the course will be very painful, but we must be resolute, cut the Gordian knot, earn time for one’s own life and undertaking, if indulge in excessively, or extremely stir and pester endlessly, its result can only let one’s own agony sink into, lead a vain and humdrum life.
Actually the life was only a fragile carrier, the ones that had already born a lot of lives were heavy, on failing in love, on failing, on pledging one’s devotion, on losing one’s sight, on becoming deaf collapse at the first blow all. In front of all sorts of facts of failure, we must adopt the idealism action, and this often only takes one second.
Don’t let, misunderstand, become permanent regret
In life, various misunderstanding always takes place, produce the time misunderstanding between you and your lover, please must find out the problem of the thing in time, otherwise, small misunderstanding, will leave you the permanent regret! !!
That was told below is that one causes the little true story of the lifelong regret because of misunderstanding, let us receive some feeling from it! !!
Pieces of merciless misunderstanding, numerous and disorderly happy step. The fast knot in destiny was opened with the cost at last, everything was late. fashionlife Meet the mother-in-law to come to home to spend remaining years in comfort, but the result has deviated from our original intention
After being married for two years, the gentleman discusses with me and connects the mother-in-law from the countryside to spend remaining years in comfort. Gentleman’s father very in the childhood passed away, he was mother-in-law’s only sustenance, the mother-in-law brings up him and grows up alone, for him to finish college. ” put up with hardships “ These four words are used on mother-in-law’s body, not absolutely excessive! I agree repeatedly, tidy up a room of the south to the room with balcony for the mother-in-law at once, can get sun, grow flowers and plants and so on. Gentleman stand in sunny room, a word say, lift I turn-take in the room suddenly, when I beg for mercy baring fangs and brandishing claws, the gentleman says: “Meet our mother. ”
The gentleman is large, I like sticking to his chest, feel petite health can be got hold of and filled in and imported the bag by him at any time. As gentleman and I dispute and unwilling when surrender, the gentleman lifts me, vacillating and staggering above the head, until I am frightened so much as to beg for mercy. Such terrified happiness makes me crazy about
Mother-in-law’s habit in the countryside can not be given up for the moment. I am used to buying one bunch of flowers to put it in the sitting room, the mother-in-law really can’t help later: “You babies do not know that live, why to buy and spend? Can’t act as the meal to eat! ” I say with a smile: “Mother, there are flowers in full bloom in family, people’s mood will be good. ” The mother-in-law pouts Nong with one’s head low, the gentleman smiles: “Mother, this is an urban resident’s habit, slowly, you are used to it. ”
The mother-in-law no longer says anything, but see me buy flowers and come back each time, still can’t help asking how much is spent, I have said, he ” clicking the tongue ” Click one’s tongue to express admiration or surprise. Sometimes, see I thing to buy big bags and small bags go home, she ask how much how much those it will be this piece, I? ? Answer accurately, what her mouth is sipped is louder. The gentleman says twisting my nose: “Little fool, don’t tell her true price does not right away all right? ”
There are cacophonies gradually in happy life. The mother-in-law can not bear my husband and stand up to cook breakfast most. In her view, the big man cooks for the wife, where is this reason? At breakfast desk, the mother-in-law’s face is often overcast, I put and can not see. The mother-in-law makes the chopsticks the dingdong messy and loud, this is her silent protest.
I become a dance teacher in the children’s palace, it is already very hard to jump, the nice and warm quilt in the morning, I do not want to throw away this only enjoyment, then, I pretend to be deaf and dumb protest of the mother-in-law. The mother-in-law is even and happy to help me to do some house work, I am busier as soon as she does. For example, she all collect the disposal bag, says etc. that saves and sells the waste plastics, do so that family is all waste plastic bags everywhere; She is not willing to to wash the bowl clean and precise by washing, for not injuring her self-respect, I have to wash again secretly.
One, I wash bowl see mother-in-law ” pa ” she stealthily evening Each fall because it call, it is wail heartily not to lie prone on one’s own room. The gentleman is in a dilemma, afterwards, the gentleman has not spoken with me for a whole night, I act like a child, acting shamelessly, he pays no attention to me too. I make brisky, ask to him: “Where on earth have I done wrong? ” The gentleman says staring at me: “You can’t yield to it, the bowl is not cleaner people die either? ”
Later, in so long period, the mother-in-law did not speak with me, the atmosphere of the family began gradually to be awkward. That period of time, the gentleman lives very tiredly, does not know that will amuse nobody well first.
Mother-in-law for allow son make breakfast, bear ” important task ” to boil the breakfast without hesitation . The mother-in-law sees gentlemen eating it happily, and then see me, condemn I have not reached the wife’s responsibility of doing to the limit with the expression in one’s eyes. In order to escape being awkward, I have to buy the milk of bag and send oneself on the way of going to work. While sleeping, the gentleman asks me a little angrily: “Reed reed, dislike and avoid my mother for not cooking too clean to eat at home? ” Translate one body, he throw to I cold back let my hurt and wronged shedding tears. Finally, the gentleman sighs: “Reed reed, it is for me that act as, you have breakfast at home, OK? ” I have to get back to the awkward breakfast desk.
In the morning of that day, I was drinking the porridge that the mother-in-law cooked, suddenly a burst of regurgitation, all the things ran robbing outwards in the stomach, I suppress and does not allow them to well up up desperately, but has not pushed down, I abandon the bowl, rush into the bathroom, while vomiting rarely crash. When I wheeze to calm down, hear mother-in-laws mixed with complaint and sob of native dialecting, the gentleman stands at the gate of bathroom looking at me angrily, I do the one mouth and can not utter a word, I did not really mean it. Gentleman and I have begun the first fierce quarrel, the mother-in-law stares at and has in mind and sees us first, then stand up, go out walking haltingly. I have chased the mother-in-law downstairs at one glance after the gentleman has had a look hating.
Whole three it, the gentleman has not gone home, even telephone was not made. My healthy tendency, think about since the mother-in-law come, I am enough for grievance, how about also wanting me? Mo Ming a wonderful one its, I want, vomit always, take any other things have appetite, add the family matters in a mess, the mood has reached the limit badly. Later, worked together and said: “Reed reed, you are very bad, let’s go to the hospital to have a look. ”
The result which the hospital checks is that I am pregnant. I have understood why I vomited suddenly in the morning of that day, insert a silk hidden bitterness in happy: Gentleman and mother-in-law, as the experienced person, why have not they expected this at all?
At the gate of hospital, I have seen Sir, have not only seen for three days, he is much more wan and sallow. I meant to turn round to leave, but his look is loved by me, had not resisted, I called him. The gentleman has seen me following the voice, but seem not to know, there is disgust that a silk can not be hidden in the expression in one’s eyes, it stab I ice-cold, I say, depend on with oneself he depend on he, have stretched out one’s hand and blocked a taxi. At that time, I wanted to give a loud cry to the gentleman more: “I who am dear should give birth to the treasure for you! ” Then lifted by him, rotate happily What I hope has not happened, in the taxi, my tears rustle falls down. I understand why one quarrel over, make love to be terrible to such extent? After coming back home, I lie in bed thinking Mr., think the disgust that he meets the eye on every side, in a complete mess in the corner where I am holding the quilt
At night, there is sound of turning over the drawer in the house, turns on the light, I see the face that gentlemen had one’s face covered with tears, he is taking the money. I am looking at him coldly, does not say a word, he depends on to me that if disappears, hold bankbook and money to leave hurriedly. Perhaps the gentleman plans to leave me completely, it is really a rational man, feeling and money are got so clear, I sneer several times, tears ” gurgle ” The ground flows.
The next day, I did not go to work, wanted to clear up one’s own mood completely, looked for gentlemen to have a talk carefully. Finding the gentleman’s company, the secretary sees me saying a little strangely: “President Chen’s mother has met with a traffic accident, in the hospital. ”
I am stupefied quickly
Darted to the hospital, when found gentlemen, the mother-in-law had already passed away. The gentleman has not been seeing me all the time, a face is stiff. I look at mother-in-law’s bony and pale face, the tears say anything and can not stop Until burying the mother-in-law, the gentleman has not told me a word either, even cast a look at me and all take the deep disgust
About the traffic accident, I know probably, the mother-in-law walks to the station dimly after going out from the mouths of others, she wants to return to homeland, the gentleman chases the faster she walk, while crossing the road, a bus collides over in one’s face
I understood the gentleman’s disgust at last, if I did not vomit in the morning of that day, if we have not quarrelled, if In his heart, I am the sinner killing his mother indirectly
Gentleman person who keep silent room to move into mother-in-law, have one’s body covered with wine to be angry while being every, and I have been felt ashamed and regretful all the time and pitiful self-respect can gasp for breath, want to explain to him, want to tell him we will have children soon, but is reading his ice-cold expression in one’s eyes, swallow all back, I prefer gentleman play I one or one, I of scolding, though all these accident on purpose mine
The time that the gentleman goes home is later to suffocate to reply emphatically day by day in life, we refuse to budge, more awkward than the stranger, I am in his fast knot in the heart
Once, I pass by a Western food restaurant, cross the transparent French window, I see gentlemen and a young girl sitting face-to-face, he has combed the hair for the girl gently, I understand everything. First stay, then I have entered the Western food restaurant, stand in front of the gentleman, is staring at him in the fatal position, eyes have one tears, I nothing want, say, have nothing to say too. The girl sees me, see my husband, stand up and want to go, my husband stretches out one’s hand and pins her, the same fatal position, never look at me giving the impression of weakness. I can only hear one’s own slow heartbeat, beat for in pale edge to close to death
It is I that has failed, if the station is left, I will fall down with child in the stomach
That night, the gentleman did not go home, he let me understand in such a way: With the passing away of the mother-in-law, our love had died too. The gentleman has not come back again. Sometimes, I come off duty back, see the wardrobe passive? ? The gentleman comes back to take some one’s own things. I do not want to phone him, originally still attempt to explain some thought to him, having given up too, everything has lost completely
The day for the future, I live alone, one goes for physical examination of the hospital. See, have man support wife go hospital, whom my heart break to pieces mention carefully each time The colleague advises me to destroy implicitly, I say “no ” firmly, I want to give birth to this child equally while going mad, a kind of compensation that the mother-in-law dies to get it right too.
That day, I came off duty back, the gentleman sat in the sitting room, full of smoke everywhere in the room, a piece of paper is put on the tea table, it is unnecessary to look, I know what content the above is. More than two months not at home for gentleman, I learnt gradually calmly, I am looking at him, take the cap, say: “You wait a moment, I sign. ” The gentleman is looking at me, the expression in one’s eyes is complicated, like me.
I say to oneself in the heart while solving the button of overcoats: “Do not cry “Eyes are very painful, but I do not allow them to shed the tears. The good overcoat hang, the gentleman’s eyes are extremely stared at the stomach that I have already risen. I smile, go over, tow that paper, without looking, sign one’s own name, push away to him. “Reed reed, are you pregnant? ” Since the mother-in-law meets accident, this is a gentleman’s first time to speak with me, I can not be in charge of oneself again, the tears ” gurgle ” The ground flows I say: “Yes, but OK, you can go. ”
The gentleman has not left, in it is dark, we are right to look at, the gentleman leans against the my body slowly, the tears have permeated the clothes. In the heart, a lot of things have already walked far, to taking even if I darted far in me. No remember gentlemen have told me it a lot of times ” sorry “ ,is it getting one’s own to be more think once too to can forgive for to me,but can’t. The gentleman is in front of that girl in the Western food restaurant He sees my ice-cold expression in one’s eyes This lifetime, I can not forget. We have rowed deep scar on the mutual heart. Mine, have no intention; His, is painstaking.
Dislike before expecting to disappear, it has been already unable to come again but in the past!
Except warm in the heart while remembering the child in the stomach, to Sir, if my heart is icy, do not eat anything that he buys, does not need any present of his, does not speak with him Since signing on that paper, all marriages and love have withered away in my heart. The gentleman attempts to go back to the bedroom sometimes, he will come, I go to the sitting room, the gentleman have to sleep back to the mother-in-law’s room. At night, the slight groan has come from the gentleman’s room sometimes, I do not say a word, this is trick that he is used to playing, in the past so long as I paid no attention to him, he malingered, I will surrender obediently, care what happened to him, he catches me and laughs heartily. Has he forgotten, at that time, it have love that I ache knowingly, now, what did we have?
The gentleman’s groan is sustained to intermittently the child was born. He is nearly doing shopping for children every day, the articles for babies, the articles for children, and the book which the child likes, a pack of bags, have piled his rooms quickly.
I know he moves me in such a way, but I have not already been swayed. He has to be imprisoned in the room, uses the computer ” Pi’s crack ” Strike words, perhaps he, in love online, but a thing that did not mind to me.
At one night of the end of spring of coming year, violent abdominal pain lets me give a loud cry, the gentleman washes in a sudden big stride forward, seem he undress, sleep at all, it is the arrival of moment to be. The gentleman shoulders me and runs downstairs, block the car, hold my hands tightly on the way, wipe off the sweat of the forehead for me ceaselessly, when getting to the hospital, shoulder me and run to the obstetrical department. Lay prone on his bony and warm back, a thought suddenly rushed into the heart: This life, who can be still fond of me as he does? The gentleman is supporting the door of the delivery room, see me entering, the expression in one’s eyes is nice and warm, I have smiled at him bearing pain. Come out from delivery room, gentleman look at I and son, eyes wetland laugh, laugh at. I have touched his hands, the gentleman looks at me, smile slightly, then, fall weakly but exhaustedly slow
I ache and call his name
The gentleman is smiling, has not opened tired out eyes
I don’t think that shed a drop of tears for the gentleman again, but the fact was, never had health which tore me of so violent aching. The doctor says, my husband’s hepatocarcinoma has already been later period when discovered, he can insist so long it is absolutely a miracle. Do I ask when a doctor found? The doctor says that five months ago, then tell me: “Let’s prepare the funeral affairs. ”
I turn on the computer in the room coming back home to rush into the gentleman regardless of the nurse’s stop, the heart has been suffocated by pain quickly
The gentleman’s hepatocarcinoma had already found, his groan is true five months ago
There are 200,000 words which gentlemen left on the computer, it is he that writes the messages for son: Child, for you, I insist on, cast a look at you, fall down again, I now loud hope most I know, your life will have much happiness, may meet the setback too, if I can accompany you to go through this growth course, how happy it will be! But father does not have this chance, my father writes the question which you may meet in all one’s life down one by one on the computer, when you meet these questions, can consult father’s opinion
My dearest child, finish writing these more than 200,000 words, I feel as accompanying you to go through the course of growing up entirely, really, my father is very happy. Love your mother carefully, she is very arduous, is the person loving you most, is my favourite too
Go from son to to the kindergarten to get to study in the primary school, study in the middle school, educated in the university, every aspect such as working and love, all matters, big and small have been all written.
The gentleman writes to me too: My dear, marry you I loud happiness most all one’s life, forgive my injury to you, forgive me for concealing the condition, because I want to let you have a good mood to wait for the child’s birth My dear, if you cry, prove you have already forgiven me, I smile, thank you for loving me all the time These presents, I worry having no chance to give to children in person, please send several presents to him for me every year, all give the date of the present writing on the packaging boxes
Get back to the hospital, the gentleman remains unchanged in going into a coma. I embrace the son over, put at his side, say to him: “You open eyes and smile, I want to let the son remember his warmth in you cherish ”
The gentleman opens the eyes difficultly, has laughed slightly, the son snuggles up in his chest, wave pink small hands
I ” cracking and snapping of cracking and snapping “ According to the shutter, let the tear trickle on the face wilfully
Read on the these story as you, have you already had one’s face covered with tears? Do you have some little misunderstanding with your lover now? ? Let’s go to solve it quickly! !!
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How could let soul not be lonely
It is a line of scenery beautiful that a lot of in life are met by chance, a lot of posts in life are that one is accompanied by the aftertasting of the tear. How much is agony in the frustration of trials and hardship? How much wind take to hit happiness at snowing night to have? ! Everybody says that life is bitter and short, everybody hopes life is full of color, everybody pursues happy lifeReciprocating Pumps| Metering Pumps long long ago, everybody wishes eagerly to have a period of life beautiful and excellent, but how can not that life be uninteresting? ! How could to want to let soul not be lonely? !
Unless night, last kinds of breath air,on overwrite by loneliness of one, look for a stretch of one’s own space, keep away from the right and wrong among this world.
I like staying alone, in that quiet moonlight, look at the star light all over the sky to circulate, the change that swiftly, extremely affect my state of mind! Aftertaste the years passing, pick up chip that pass, recall dull life in staying alone. I like being lonely, like the heartbeat in night to echo the sound of rain drops, dance together together, realize the right and wrong, lost regret and happiness got in the human society —I like dreaming, it is attentive to describe in the dream clearly, centre on a person’s neither very warm nor cold body temperature. That exuding tenderness and love smiles affectionatelyHigh pressure pumps Piston Pumps, that tacit knowing smiling that knew each other, the ones that made me palpitate with excitement are happy and disconsolate. But I dislike, dream, because all want, get back to reality come on after dream wake up —
I like the characters, I give vent to with it! State of mind whether I make up and imagine I paint others’ plot in characters in the brain, write one’s own compliment, keep but is revealing one’s own mental state! Take one way, show one mood, but the love in the heart can write to the limit with rich in variety characters that?Frontline Tick, Pet Shop, Frontline Cat ! I like coming and going hurriedly, one moves ahead sonorous and forcefully, the laughing and joking sporting while coming, the meeting glad, treasure the time when every part meets, wave the sleeve gracefully when leave, silent leaving, does not take a cloud away, does not leave a silk to think fondly of. Although words say but a each one sport each each meeting of meeting so, everything here can so graceful to wave sleeve leave really? Needn’t take a cloud away, but go back does not have a silk and is sentimentally attached to? !
I know that lonely not only a person’s loneliness in night
Flea Medication, Flea Remedies , I see, it is one’s own tenderness the most not to let soul be lonely, one’s own care the most, I do not want soul to be lonely, not afraid soul is lonely!
Let ten happy plant the method
Unsatisfactory for you when or meet the setback, the malignant mood that sad, angry, depression, sorrow,etc. impair one’s health will come in a continuous stream. How to dissolve actively as soon as possible as soon as possible? The psychologist recommends the following measure to you, everybody there is no harm in trying it.
One, more than does sport activity of running, turn-taking, walking fast, swimming etc.. These activities are one of the effectual measures which dissolve bad mood.
Second, get sun. Famous Miao, expert of psychosis, rein in, point out sunshine can improve depressed condition of patient.
Third, eat bananas. Psychologist Professor Padel of Germany’s nutrition finds, the banana can help the human brain to produce the material of five hydroxy color ammonia while containing one kind, it can reduce the secretion of bad hormone,MP3 Player| Flash Drive| Flash Card| Memory Module| Memory Card| SUB Contracting| Micro SD Tin Box Dvd Box Wholesale Tin Containers Cd Box Suppliermakes people quiet, happy.
Fourth, cry and shout loudly. Look for a secluded, cry and shout loudly heartily. Japanese psychological expert discovers, this kind can make and is constrained the psychology and led to cry and shout off heartily, meanwhile, the toxin produced by bad mood, can also ” cry and shout ” Come out.
Fifth, think well that sleep. The sleep facilitates overcoming abominable mood, the steady heart concentrates one’s attention. Wake up from a sleep, the mood will be much better.
Sixth, listen to the music. The music can make the brain produce the material that a kind of composure tranquilized, but should pay attention to choosing to ” satisfy the need ” Music.
Seventh, award the flowers and plants. The colors and smell of the flowers and plants, there is function of mediator’s mood.
Eighth, watch the mountains and rivers. Blue mountains and green waters, prosperous scene, will put you in beautiful situation, mood can ” happy to take ” .
Ninth, hit the puppet. Stick the puppet the name of the persons who let oneself be unsatisfactory or incident name, Electronic Manufacturing| Electronic Manufacturing Services| China Electronic Manufacturer| Electronics Manufacturer| Electronics Manufacturing China| China Electronics Manufacturers| Electronics Contract Manufacturing| Electronic Contract Manufacturing Servicesthen impact desperately. Later, people no longer feel oppressed, the mood will turn better naturally.
Tenth, have the shower. Shower among public bath, can produce one active molecule that tranquilize, when being unhappy, there is no harm in have by shower,after can not definitely all over the light.
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